How can you best support a child who has overcome addiction?
First, emphasize what they’ve already done. They’ve accomplished something significant to overcome the addiction. The question now is: how do we support them going forward?
The best approach is continued, open conversations about what they’re learning, their progress, and how they’re feeling. That kind of openness creates natural accountability. Asking “How are things going?” and not being afraid of the answer matters.
Children who have struggled with addiction need support, but that support doesn’t always have to come from parents. Sometimes it might be a close friend, neighbor, aunt, uncle, or another trusted adult. What matters most is that they have consistent support so they can remain accountable for what they’re experiencing.
The next step is helping them shift energy into positive parts of life—school, hobbies, creative activities, sports, performing, or anything productive they enjoy. Putting energy into positive pursuits strengthens recovery and helps them move to the next level.
As a parent, you can express pride while also acknowledging their hard work: “I’m proud of you, and I know this isn’t easy.” Encourage openness about cravings or fears of relapse: “If you ever feel a craving or feel close to relapse, reach out. I’m not afraid of those conversations.”
Continuous accountability and encouragement toward growth will help them continue to progress.
