This question came in yesterday in preparation for tonight's session.
How do I encourage my kindergartner to make friends and encourage out-of-school connections? My child says they feel lonely.
This is a great question. My experience in situations like that is:
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Leverage Previous Connections: If your child has been in any preschool or group activities, contact other parents and arrange a fun event like a pizza party or playdate. If large groups are overwhelming, invite one specific child your kindergartner would enjoy spending time with.
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Neighborhood Opportunities: Look for neighborhood children playing nearby to help form friendships by proximity.
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Organize Parent-Led Activities: Setting up “joy schools” or similar parent-led preschool groups allows parents to coordinate playtimes and socialize naturally. Even at the kindergarten level, small after-school or weekend activities can encourage connections.
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Create Positive Social Environments: Hosting events like birthday parties, holiday celebrations, or fun gatherings at home can help your child feel proud of their space and excited to connect with others. Plan engaging games or activities suitable for the season.
While you can’t force friendships, you can foster opportunities where connections naturally occur. Making socializing fun and consistent helps children develop relationships and social skills over time.
