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B\u1edfi v\u00ec trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u1edf c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n hai phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p><p>Khi \u1edf v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t trong hai ph\u1ee5 huynh, con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ho\u1eb7c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 khi \u1edf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng l\u00e0m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. Theo th\u1eddi gian, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hai b\u1ea3n d\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh.<\/p><p>Cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf v\u1ecb th\u1ebf quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng hay n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng cao \u0111\u1ed9. Do \u0111\u00f3, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u1ecb l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean.<\/p><p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng cha ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u1edf c\u00f9ng \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng duy tr\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc.<\/p><p>Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed xa l\u00e1nh ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. 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\u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f1051c5351e\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f1051c5351e\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>First question: Dr. Skinner, I have suspicions that my child doesn't feel completely safe when they're with my ex. How can I know for sure?<\/p><p>There are two things I think of in that situation. First, you need an outside voice. In situations like this, parents are often in conflict, and children can get caught in the middle of what\u2019s happening. In more destructive dynamics, one parent may try to turn the child against the other, creating an environment where the child feels like they have to choose.<\/p><p>When a child feels forced to choose between parents, it can create significant emotional distress. They want acceptance from both parents, and when they feel they can\u2019t have that, it can lead to confusion and even trauma.<\/p><p>That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to involve a neutral third party\u2014someone who can talk with the child and understand what they\u2019re truly experiencing, without being influenced by either parent. When you\u2019re in the middle of conflict, it\u2019s often difficult to see clearly.<\/p><p>One of the most important things I tell parents is to leave children out of the divorce. The more amicable and consistent parents can be, the better the outcome for the child.<\/p><p>Children need to know that the divorce is not their fault. They should not feel caught in the middle, and they need reassurance that both parents still love them. They also need to feel that they are not losing their relationship with either parent.<\/p><p>It\u2019s important to focus on what you can control\u2014providing validation, emotional support, and stability. Keeping consistency in their environment, such as maintaining routines, friendships, and family connections, is also very helpful.<\/p><p>Another concern is when one parent may try to influence or distort the child\u2019s perception of the other parent. 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        \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f1c42994881\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f1c42994881\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>Next question: What are your thoughts on empowering our children to advocate for themselves?<\/p><p>I like that question a lot because when we work with children, we want them to feel like they have influence\u2014that they have a voice. 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class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng Phi\u00ean \u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f1c679bb94f\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f1c679bb94f\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>When my child gets nervous or things are not going right, she\u2019ll rub and scratch her skin until she breaks the skin. How do I correct this?<\/p><p>In situations like that, it can either be a habit used for comfort or soothing, or it can be tied to internal feelings of anxiety. When individuals feel anxious, behaviors like scratching can become a way to cope with those internal sensations.<\/p><p>There are two main approaches to helping with this. The first is to redirect attention. When your child feels the urge to scratch, you can help them practice doing something different instead. This builds awareness\u2014\u201cI want to do this, but I\u2019m going to choose something else.\u201d Helping them develop alternative strategies is key.<\/p><p>The second approach is to pause and bring awareness to what they\u2019re feeling. You might have them fold their arms, take a few deep breaths, and observe what\u2019s happening inside. Ask questions like, \u201cWhat am I feeling? Why do I want to do this? What do I need right now?\u201d This builds emotional awareness.<\/p><p>Some may wonder why we would focus attention on the feeling instead of distracting from it. The reason is that simply distracting doesn\u2019t make the feeling go away\u2014it just shifts attention. While distraction can be helpful, understanding the feeling can lead to deeper, long-term change.<\/p><p>Research like the marshmallow experiment shows that learning to delay impulses can lead to better outcomes. But those skills can also be taught\u2014children can learn to redirect their attention effectively.<\/p><p>Another powerful approach is helping the child sit with the discomfort briefly and identify what\u2019s going on inside. Are they anxious? Stressed? Bored? Naming the feeling helps them gain control over it rather than feeling controlled by it.<\/p><p>You can even give the urge a simple name, like \u201cthe itch,\u201d to create some distance from it. From there, they can either sit with the feeling or gently redirect their attention.<\/p><p>A combination of awareness and redirection tends to be most effective. The goal is to help the child understand what they\u2019re feeling and develop healthier ways to respond.<\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                                        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr. Kevin Skinner explains that self-scratching behaviors in children are often linked to anxiety or self-soothing habits. 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\u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f152d33a346\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f152d33a346\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n khi ch\u00fang b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p><p>There is a part of every child that looks for connection. If a child is being negatively influenced by peers, a parent coming down too hard can actually push them further toward those peers. We need to be careful not to create resistance or unintentionally align them against us.<\/p><p>Instead, we want to focus on what we can control\u2014how we interact with our child. Start by observing. The type of negative influence matters. There\u2019s a difference between changes in language and more serious concerns like drugs, alcohol, or risky behavior. We need to identify the level of influence and address it accordingly.<\/p><p>Have conversations that teach your child what\u2019s happening and clearly communicate your family\u2019s expectations. Explain not just what the rules are, but why they exist. Help your child understand your perspective, and also ask them about their experiences with their peers.<\/p><p>It\u2019s important to validate their feelings. Being accepted and feeling like part of a group matters to them because we all long for connection. That desire makes peer influence powerful.<\/p><p>What we want is for our child to feel strong connection at home. When that connection is present, they are more likely to recognize when peer influences are pulling them away from what matters most\u2014healthy relationships and family.<\/p><p>The parent-child relationship is one of the most effective ways to counter negative peer influence. Open, honest, and loving communication is key.<\/p><p>If your child has already aligned strongly with a peer group, it may be more difficult. They may not recognize negative outcomes until later. That\u2019s why consistency, love, and clear guidelines are so important.<\/p><p>Educate them about consequences\u2014legal, emotional, and relational\u2014especially with higher-risk behaviors like substance use. Set boundaries, and when needed, apply consequences.<\/p><p>Consequences should be given with love. 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t\u00e2m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.\n\n3.  **B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng:** H\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf nh\u01b0: \"D\u1ea1o g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y con c\u00f3 xem g\u00ec tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn con t\u00f2 m\u00f2 hay kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng?\" ho\u1eb7c \"M\u1eb9\/B\u1ed1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i kh\u00e1c d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng?\"\n\n4.  **L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u:** H\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1c b\u1ecf. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i xem nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i video \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do t\u00f2 m\u00f2, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\n\n5.  **Cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i:** Sau khi l\u1eafng nghe, h\u00e3y cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y trong video c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i.\n\n6.  **Nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c r\u1ee7i ro:** Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i dung ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng.\n\n7.  **Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng:** \u0110\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng internet v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\n\n8.  **Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf:** T\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y cho ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.\n\n9.  **T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3:** Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.\n\n10. **T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n:** N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb em ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh."},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"82410\" class=\"elementor elementor-82410\" data-elementor-post-type=\"ask-a-therapist\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b97dff1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b97dff1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a75e0c elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"7a75e0c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;vimeo&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<iframe class=\"elementor-video-iframe\" allowfullscreen allow=\"clipboard-write\" title=\"vimeo \u0645\u0634\u063a\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0641\u064a\u062f\u064a\u0648\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/1185883894?color&amp;autopause=0&amp;loop=0&amp;muted=0&amp;title=0&amp;portrait=0&amp;byline=0#t=\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a17174a elementor-widget elementor-widget-elementskit-accordion\" data-id=\"a17174a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"elementskit-accordion.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ekit-wid-con\" >\n        <div class=\"elementskit-accordion accoedion-primary\" id=\"accordion-69f13724f1ecf\">\n\n            \n                <div class=\"elementskit-card\">\n                    <div class=\"elementskit-card-header\" id=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\">\n                        <a href=\"#collapse-0f0367469f13724f1ecf\" class=\"ekit-accordion--toggler elementskit-btn-link collapsed\" data-ekit-toggle=\"collapse\" data-target=\"#Collapse-0f0367469f13724f1ecf\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-0f0367469f13724f1ecf\">\n                                                            <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_left_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n                                        <i class=\"icon icon-plus\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-minus\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng Phi\u00ean \u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f13724f1ecf\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f13724f1ecf\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>Khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xem l\u00e9n video ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc sau:\n\n1.  **Gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t:** \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u00e1n. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u00e0ng thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i.\n\n2.  **Ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p:** T\u00ecm m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang t\u01b0 v\u00e0 y\u00ean t\u0129nh khi c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.\n\n3.  **B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng:** H\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf nh\u01b0: \"D\u1ea1o g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y con c\u00f3 xem g\u00ec tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn con t\u00f2 m\u00f2 hay kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng?\" ho\u1eb7c \"M\u1eb9\/B\u1ed1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i kh\u00e1c d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1eb9\/b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng?\"\n\n4.  **L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u:** H\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1c b\u1ecf. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i xem nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i video \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do t\u00f2 m\u00f2, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\n\n5.  **Cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i:** Sau khi l\u1eafng nghe, h\u00e3y cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y trong video c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i.\n\n6.  **Nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c r\u1ee7i ro:** Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i dung ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng.\n\n7.  **Thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng:** \u0110\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng internet v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\n\n8.  **Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf:** T\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y cho ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.\n\n9.  **T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3:** Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.\n\n10. **T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n:** N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb em ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh.<\/p><p>This is something I\u2019ve spent a lot of time on over the last 20\u201325 years. In situations like this, the conversation needs to focus on awareness of the impact that this kind of content can have on the mind. So I want to educate my child and help them understand that there are things that can influence and change us.<\/p><p>I might use resources like educational websites or videos to help them understand what this can do to them. In our culture, a lot of people minimize it and say, \u201cIt\u2019s just an adult video,\u201d but it\u2019s more than that. It can affect the body\u2019s natural bonding systems.<\/p><p>Research shows that overexposure can impact a person\u2019s ability to develop meaningful relationships by affecting bonding chemicals like oxytocin and vasopressin. So what I want to do is educate my child without shame\u2014that\u2019s a very important part.<\/p><p>If my child feels shamed or labeled as bad, instead of being taught and guided, that can be harmful. As human beings, we are naturally curious and responsive to sexual content. That curiosity is normal. So I want to approach this with love, education, and understanding.<\/p><p>I want my child to understand what these experiences are doing to their mind and how they can influence behavior, but in a way that is non-shaming, validating, and supportive. That\u2019s when you\u2019ll have the most influence.<\/p><p>If the behavior becomes frequent or habitual, then you may need to increase support\u2014this could include reducing screen time, limiting access, or using filters to make content less accessible.<\/p><p>In today\u2019s world, many children are exposed to this type of content at a very young age\u2014often around age 11\u2014before they are emotionally ready to process it. Early exposure can make it more difficult because of the strong dopamine response it creates.<\/p><p>This isn\u2019t something you can simply talk away, because there are natural biological responses involved. 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\u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f137250cb2c\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f137250cb2c\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>How do we address sextortion with our 16-year-old daughter?<\/p><p>There are two parts to this, and this is a much more difficult situation. In cases like this, you likely need to get an attorney and contact your local police department or police station.<\/p><p>People don\u2019t always like hearing that, but with sextortion, what\u2019s happening is someone is threatening to post images on various platforms. I\u2019ve seen situations like this personally, where a teenager shared that it had happened to them. My response was to go to the police station.<\/p><p>What\u2019s important to understand is that sending nude images of anyone under 18 is illegal because it is considered child pornography. Most people\u2014both teens and adults\u2014don\u2019t fully understand that.<\/p><p>When you go to the police, you explain what has happened. In one case, the guidance was to delete social media accounts like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok to prevent distribution. If those images are shared, that is also illegal.<\/p><p>It\u2019s important to contact platform support and take immediate action. At the same time, you must support your child emotionally. There have been cases where individuals have died by suicide because of situations like this.<\/p><p>Your child needs to feel validated, loved, and supported. They need to know they matter and that you will work through this together. Creating that sense of safety is critical.<\/p><p>Education is also key. I\u2019ve shared real examples with my own children to help them understand that this is happening, sometimes from people in other countries who attempt to extort money by threatening to release images.<\/p><p>We need to educate and inform our children so they understand the risks, and we need to do it in a loving and supportive way.<\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                                        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr. Kevin Skinner addresses the serious issue of sextortion, emphasizing the need for legal involvement, immediate action with authorities and platforms, and strong emotional support for the child. 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cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng sau:\n\n*   **S\u1ef1 leo thang c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1:** V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chi ph\u00ed s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa cao h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\n*   **\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7:** Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e3i v\u00e3 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.\n*   **Gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n:** N\u1ebfu v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\n*   **\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n:** M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nguy hi\u1ec3m, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 r\u00f2 r\u1ec9 kh\u00ed gas, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.\n*   **T\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n l\u1ec7 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c:** Vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1i th\u00f3i quen n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.\n*   **C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng:** C\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng khi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb ph\u1edbt l\u1edd."},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"82407\" class=\"elementor elementor-82407\" data-elementor-post-type=\"ask-a-therapist\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b97dff1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b97dff1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a75e0c elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"7a75e0c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;vimeo&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<iframe class=\"elementor-video-iframe\" allowfullscreen allow=\"clipboard-write\" title=\"Tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t video 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data-target=\"#Collapse-0f0367469f18ef657f3f\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-0f0367469f18ef657f3f\">\n                                                            <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_left_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n                                        <i class=\"icon icon-plus\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-minus\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng Phi\u00ean \u00e2m<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-0f0367469f18ef657f3f\" class=\"collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-a17174a\" data-parent=\"#accordion-69f18ef657f3f\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p>Khi cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng sau:\n\n*   **S\u1ef1 leo thang c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1:** V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chi ph\u00ed s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa cao h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\n*   **\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7:** Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e3i v\u00e3 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.\n*   **Gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n:** N\u1ebfu v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\n*   **\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n:** M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nguy hi\u1ec3m, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 r\u00f2 r\u1ec9 kh\u00ed gas, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.\n*   **T\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n l\u1ec7 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c:** Vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1i th\u00f3i quen n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.\n*   **C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng:** C\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng khi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb ph\u1edbt l\u1edd.<\/p><p>Khi cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, th\u00ec n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kia ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i, \u201cCh\u00e0, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai \u0111\u00e2u,\u201d th\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean r\u00fat lui, l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean r\u00fat lui\u2014b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p><p>Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, d\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra hay kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNh\u00ecn n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u2013 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y \u2013 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng, v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p><p>V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 t\u00f4i tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecd v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, \u201cN\u00e0y, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.\u201d Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady\u2014h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. \u201cNh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua.\u201d<\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                                        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr. Kevin Skinner explains that when a parent refuses to acknowledge the need for emotional repair, children often respond by withdrawing. 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B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c minh h\u1ecda trong \u201cth\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng\u201d c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Edward Tronick.<\/p><p>Trong th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi em b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u2014m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, giao ti\u1ebfp, ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u00e0 gi\u1eef v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m. Em b\u00e9 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i\u2014m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 tay, t\u1ea1o ra ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng. Khi cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i, em b\u00e9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, quay \u0111i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.<\/p><p>Ngay c\u1ea3 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn, s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u0169ng g\u00e2y ra \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa n\u00f3 \u2014 ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u g\u1eafn b\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n.<\/p><p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u: s\u1ef1 ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn.<\/p><p>Ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00ednh v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t\u2014do b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c th\u1eed th\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c\u2014m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n.<\/p><p>\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u201cAi c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3\u201d. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n, hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c.<\/p><p>Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng h\u1ecd. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00eau t\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi - cha m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i.<\/p><p>Ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. Khi c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n\u2014ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i\u2014h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i.<\/p><p>V\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p><p>Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/p><p>Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. 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