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教育年幼的兄弟姐妹停止争吵、开始分享的最佳方法是什么?

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我有几个较小的孩子,他们是兄弟姐妹,经常打架。怎样才能让他们学会不打人和分享?

好吧,这是一个非常有趣的问题,因为孩子们会对他们能逃脱的事情做出反应。当他们侥幸逃脱时,有时会从中获得能量或关注。三岁的孩子不会说话,也不一定能理解 "我们不打人 "这样的概念。我们可以通过坚持不懈的教育让他们知道行为是不对的。三岁左右的孩子开始表现出不服管教的行为,他们挑战界限是正常的。

在这种情况下,我建议提供额外的关爱。抱起孩子、玩游戏或分散他们的注意力,并邀请他们拥抱一下。帮助他们明白 "我们家不打人,我们家有爱"。鼓励他们在生气或沮丧时来找你,并提供玩游戏等替代方式。即使他们可能仍有挑衅行为,也要坚持不懈地教导他们什么是可接受的行为。

目的是让他们明白,打人、拳击或扯头发都是不对的。取而代之的是,通过转移他们对不健康行为的注意力,引导他们采取积极的行为,如玩游戏和友善待人,从而起到正面强化的作用。积极的强化往往比惩罚更能有效地改变孩子的行为。避免通过大喊大叫来关注孩子的负面行为,而是专注于指导他们在家中的适当行为。

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