Dr. Kimberly Applewhite shares a practical connection tip to help parents create a safe and open environment where children feel comfortable discussing self-harm. She introduces the DBT-based “GIVE” skill, which emphasizes being gentle, showing genuine interest, validating the child’s feelings, and maintaining an easy, calm manner.
Her message highlights that practicing these communication skills consistently—especially in everyday moments—helps build trust and makes it more likely that children will open up during difficult situations.