Dr. Kimberly Applewhite explains that self-harm in children and teens is not a sign of weakness or bad character, but rather an attempt to cope with overwhelming and difficult emotions. She emphasizes that kids often lack the tools to express or regulate what they feel, leading them to use self-harm as a way to gain control or relief. Dr. Applewhite encourages parents to approach the issue with compassion, improve communication, and help their children gradually develop healthier coping strategies that meet the same emotional needs.