Our next question is, how would I have my child open up about possible abuse that they might be enduring, such as sexual abuse?
There's no one-size-fits-all answer, but I would suggest starting with understanding the age of your child and observing any behavioral changes. One approach could be teaching your child about healthy and unhealthy touch. Ask them directly if anything like this has happened to them. Education is crucial here.
If you're noticing signs that your child may be experiencing abuse, it's important to observe what you're seeing. If abuse is confirmed, it must be reported by law, and it’s something you are obligated to do as a parent or guardian. This is not optional, and the law requires reporting if a child has been abused.
Having open conversations through education, like discussing healthy boundaries, might help your child open up. Sometimes, they may naturally share something with you. It's critical that they feel believed if they decide to open up about what has happened. It's important to avoid minimizing their experience or dismissing it. If your child does open up, make sure you listen, and then take the necessary actions to protect them.
